Ladies, Sometimes the grass is not greener outside. In-fact there is no grass at all outside

Tim n Empress 2008

I just read about Empress Njamah doing some charity work and all in her EmpressNjamahfoundation and I just shook my head.
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In 2008, Nigerian singer Timaya, was just coming up and becoming Big.
He was madly in-love with Actress Empress Njamah. He wanted to Marry her immediately. He even sang a long song for her on his second album. Title of song: Iyawo Mi by Timaya. http://music.naij.com/17691-timaya-iyawo-mi-naijapals

But what happened? Accordig to Timaya, she mis-behaved, maybe she was still looking at him like a small boy(Which he was in 2008). In 2008, Empress was considered hot-n-sexy. She was like the Kim Kardashian of 2008. And maybe that was why she was looking for already-made men. 

I always counsel ladies, when a guy displays craziness-in-love for you. And does the extra ordinary for you. Don't mis-use it. Don't abuse it. Don't you ever. Because every guy can be a fool for love, but the moment he notices you're using him, cheating on him, or playing on his emotions, the whole I- love-U will die. No one will be a fool forever.  No one wants to be the other guy. Every man wants to be the guy that his ladies will love and respect. If you can't give a man "Respect" and then love, you will loose him. (If a guy is crazy about you, you had better thank God). Why? Cos you are not indispensable. No one is. 

Well Fast-forward 7-years , here we are today. Timaya is More popular than her and Has a daughter.
Empress Njamah on the other hand is still not married. No kids. Haven't been in the spotlight for years now. (The only thing she needed to do was patience, and would have been married to Timaya and would-have-been a very happy wife and mother now).
(Proverbs 14:29- Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly.
Ephesians 4:2 - Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.)
So I wonder why ladies sometimes - when a single-struggling guy is crazy over them, they always downgrade the guy, instead of thanking God. They would rather prefer the guy that's already rich who they look up to.

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Lesson here is ladies, the young struggling guy that you see today, will become big tomorrow.
Follow someone that loves you more and not someone you love. The Tree you see today was a seed yesterday. And the seed in your hands now, can become a Bigger Tree tomorrow, depends on how you handle it. Plant and water it.( Love, care and more importantly RESPECT your man).
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