Divorce is NOT the Answer

Peace be unto you all, My millions of readers, I bring this topic to you as it is very important to each and every one of us.

Whether you are single, married, divorced, or a child .....I want you to know the truth.

Divorce is a complete separation between two people. Marriage on the other hand is the joining together of two people, Man and woman. So divorce is the opposite of marriage. No wonder God hates divorce, because it is doing the exact opposite of what God's intention for us.

In Matt 19:4 and also Gen 2:22, GOD defines marriage as said; For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall b one flesh?
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 

Here the Bible makes it explicitly clearer. God is the inventor of marriage. He knows that it is not good for a man to be alone. That's why when people want to divorce, God is never in support. And its very dangerous to do something that God does not support.

Marriage is God's choice for us all. That's why even though you're divorce, and you marry another person, according to GOD and the Bible, you have committed adultery.
And once a single person marries a divorced person, the single person has committed adultery.
Which means that, according to the record of GOD, once you're married, you're married for life. Even if on earth you divorce, in Heaven you're still married.

There is no perfect marriage.
A wise man said Marriage is the coming together of two imperfect people deciding to make it work.
Brethren , I speak to you now, if you're married, try your best and make it work. Divorce is not the answer.

If you're single, Look before you leap. Ask God if the man you're about to marry is actually the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh. Same goes if you're a man and about to marry.

My earlier posts says the main reason why people divorce. (Sex before marriage)

Marriage is like a boat. carrying the husband and the wife on a deep sea. Getting out of the boat is not an option. So if there is a misunderstanding, the two must make it work. The only option they have is to remain in the marriage.
Just like when JESUS and His disciples were on a boat in the sea and the winds began to blow, What did Jesus do? He confronted the problem, Oh wind be still. and it obeyed. 
Exactly same can be done in marriage. If you face any challenges, confront the challenge. Because you know God was the one that created marriage, you're sure He will be quick to answer any prayer that relates to your marriage. Hold Him responsible if He hasn't answered you yet, until he answers. 

And like I said, you must make it work, and by the Grace of God, I wish you true Joy and everlasting

happiness in your marriage in JESUS NAME...More Truths coming your way soon............

The NON-WHITEBLACK Amelikan

There was a town called Amelika. There was a Man, he was the king of the town called Amelika. 

He had 100 dogs. The color of all the dogs were pale color. 

So On Day 1. He observed how well the dogs were communicating with each other and playing with each other. He noticed there was great love, and a lot of fun. 

So on Day-2 At night while the dogs were asleep, He painted 50 of the dogs white, and another 50 of the dogs black. 

So when the dogs woke up, he noticed that the white dogs were playing with only their fellow white dogs. And The black dogs played only with the black dogs. 

When it was time for lunch, usually king throws a pizza and all the dogs each take a slice. But this time, when the pizza was thrown, the white dogs just could not see themselves eating with the black dogs from same pizza. So there was great strife and the pizza got cold and bad. No one ended up eating the pizza. But there was just only 5 white dogs that were able to get a slice and shared their pizza with 5 black dogs.

At night, usually there are 50 beds(two dogs per bed). On that night, each black dog got on each bed, and refused to share their bed with the white dogs. This time around, only 5 black dogs agreed to share their beds with 5 white dogs. 

The following morning, 

The king spoke: You all are not worthy to be called Amelikans. Except for; the King called out the 5 white dogs that shared the pizza and the 5 black dogs that shared their bed. 

And he drove the other 90 dogs out of Amelika. The truth here is, if something as little as a change of color can make you act selfish, wicked, and irrational, then you are not worthy to be called an Amelikan.

This is just my truth,,,,,More Truths coming your way soonest,,,,,,

Food for thought

What will you say to this?

A Wrist watch for 500k?? Will it show me when the world will end?

• A Bathing soap for 80k?? Will it wash away sins and sorrows?

• One Eye glasses for 350k?? If I wear it, will I be able to see the future?

• An Italian shoe for 150k?? Will I be able to walk on water?

• A Plasma TV for 500k?? Will it show me the Judgement day on the last day live?

• A Gold plated mobile phone for 3 million naira. Chai!!! Will I use it to answer heaven's call?

• A Hand Bag for 1.3Million naira?? Will I put my life inside it?

• 2 million naira for a table in comedy show. Which kind
laugh I never laugh before?

• 3 Million naira per year at a university. After graduation, will they make me the president?

Sometimes, I wonder why some people spend like craze, knowing fully well that there are hungry children in the streets roaming about naked.

1. The smallest act of kindness you show, can change someone's life.

2. Remember, money only brings happiness if you help people with it.

3. Let someone say to you, BECAUSE OF YOU I DIDN'T GIVE UP !!!
When God blesses you financially, don't just raise your STANDARD OF LIVING, also raise your STANDARD OF GIVING.

More Truths coming your way!!!!

YOUR TONGUE - FIFTH SECRETS TO SUCCESS

Your mouth is one of your greatest key to your greatness. You get what you ask for. The power of Life and death lies in the power of the tongue, Proverbs 18:21.
If you want to succeed in life. You should start declaring your future today.
If you wanna be a Millionaire in 5years time, You should start proclaiming it. You should start saying it now.
A closed mouth is a closed destiny. 
If you want to be rich, start by saying everyday...I am Rich. Don't just say it to yourself. Go out and when you're in a conversation with people, tell them that "I am rich".
(There is a difference between -I will be rich and I am rich. Always choose 'I am'. I will be means you're scared, a coward. But if you say I am rich, shows authority, and no one is gonna arrest you for that).
The moment you tell one person your desired future, The heavens hears it and there is like a stamp of approval on those words.
If you earning $100,000 and wants to earn a Million, the next time someone asks you, hey buddy, how much are you earning, simply say I earn One Million Dollars. 
You might not understand it, but it's very very true.
The world we live in, is a mysterious one. The spiritual controls the physical.

That's why when most people say- I think I'm gonna be sick, more often than not, they fall sick.

If you're sick and want to get well, when people ask you, Hey how are you doing? respond by saying I'm doing very well. And the moment they hear your response, it automatically registers in Heaven that you're well. And i tell you for sure, you will get well. 

It's not rocket science, it's the power of the tongue.

If you want a good husband and you're single now. The moment anyone asks you, hey are you married? respond by saying Yes I'm Happily married with kids. You would be surprise how speedily your husband will come. 

Here in lies the Fifth secret to Success in the Journey of Life. (Read my earlier posts for the First[GOD], second[Focus], third[perseverence], and fourth[Friends] secrets)

Coming your way soonest with More Truths......

Is GAY cool? NAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

So there are two kinds of people now in the world. The Normal human beings and gay.
Gay, has become an acceptable group in the United States and some other part of the world. Gay is someone attracted to the opposite sex.
Now just sit back and relax let me explain really what Gay is.

It didn't just start now. It has been there for over hundreds of years.
In the Bible, In Gen18: 20- (GOD said He has heard about the grievous sin happening in Sodom and Gomorrah. So He sent His Angel to see if it is actually true. So the Angels came to see Lot, the Men of Sodom, saw them that they looked good. So they came and told Lot, bring those men that came to visit you. we want to have sex with them).  That's why God destroyed them.
If a child is born and has some disability,dysfunction or hormonal imbalance. The parents try to correct it, right?
It is exactly the same thing with gay. If you find out your child is gay, or if you're an adult and you're gay. Do not think it's normal. It's a hormonal dysfunction. You should try and correct it.

If You're gay, the first thing to do is to realize you have a problem. 
It's a dysfunction. It's a sickness. 
African Proverb- " One who hides a sickness will not be cured". 
That's exactly how it is with gays. 
When they were kids, they knew they had the sickness(gay), but out of fear, social damnation they concealed it from their parents. Now they are grown up and now the society is telling them it's OK to be gay. So they come out of their closet. No it's NOT OK.

As a Christian, it's wrong. (Lev 18:22).Even if you aren't a Christian, it is still very wrong.
This is why some scientist have discovered that animals are wiser than some humans;

1. No male animal can have sex with another male. No female animal can have sex with another female. But in humans we see that. 
2. You don't find a male animal going for a sex change to become female, but you find that in humans. 

Why some people are Gay;
1. Some guys are just so shy/scared of the opposite sex. They can't even walk up to a nice lady for a chat, so they settle for the same sex cos it's easier to have a convo with. MAN UP,
1b-  Some ladies are just so shy/scared of the opposite sex. Their hearts beat continuously when talking with men, so they settle for the same sex cos it's easier to have a convo with. WOMAN UP

2. The devilish spirit. This spirit enters a person, lives in a person. And manifests at a particular point in a person's life.

3. People generally all have sensitive part, so if you're a man and your sensitive part is touched by man and you feel aroused, doesn't mean you gay. It's just normal. But STOP it immediately, because it's not right. It is detestable. That's why in some African countries, you get thrown in prison if you're Gay.

Now check this out,
True life story
My name is Kelvin, 30 yrs old. I'm an American who lives and works in an oil company in Nigeria and have been Gay since childhood. After the law was passed in May 2013 in Nigeria. The law states “A person who enters into a same sex marriage contract or civil union commits an offence and is liable on conviction to a term of 14 years imprisonment". I had to stop the gay acts cos i didn't want to go to prison. Soon after I realized, I actually like women after I started dating women. 
I'm married now with a beautiful son, Bentley. "Gay is just a thing of the Mind. it's just the devil that was trying to mess with my perception". God Bless Nigeria for the Anti-Gay law.

That above is a true life story. And that's his baby up there. I encourage you if you're gay.
There are two ways out;

1. Make a conscious effort to be with, talk, and chat with opposite sex and never with same sex.
2. Seek God and pray the following prayers;

Prayers to deliver from GAYism (Pray it for 7days)
1.  Oh Lord, Please forgive me for practicing gay, I won't go back to it anymore. 
2. Every spirit of Sodom and Gomorrah in my Life, Die in the Name of Jesus. 
3. If you're man say - I will love and Marry a woman, in Jesus Name. 
   If you're woman say- I will love and marry a Man, in Jesus Name. Amen.

There you go, you're free now. No devil can hold u down with the gay spirit anymore....Thank you Jesus. More truths coming your way....soonest.

LOST BUT FOUND

Matt 2:1-2 "Now when Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea, in the days of Herod the king, behold there came three wise men from the east to Jerusalem saying, where is he that was born, king of the Jews?for we have seen his star in the east and are come to worship him".

In order to worship him, you must let go of everything you're doing.
If you seek the Lord to worship Him, you will always find Him. And when you find Him, you will surely rejoice with exceeding great joy.
Therein lies the secret to "great joy". This tells us the only way you can have True joy in life is after you have found the Lord Jesus.
The minute you find Jesus, you have got nothing else to worry about. How wonderful is it, to not have to worry about anything on earth, don't have to worry about bills, health, marriage. (Cos He supplies your needs)

In order to find Jesus, you must forsake a lot of things. Forsake the world entirely. Let your mind be fixated on Him the way the three wise men were following the star.
It's as simple as this, If you follow the way of the Lord, you will surely find the Lord. The reason why a lot of people are sad is simply because;

1. They haven't found Jesus yet.
If you haven't found Jesus yet, you're like a soccer player playing without a goal post. you're like a wanderer trying to kill time on earth. When your time is up, God will ask you, "So what was my benefit of creating you and bringing you into this world". This is a question everyone must answer.
Luke 3:9( If you aren't useful to God, you shall be cutoff. How do you become useful. Love God. Love your neighbour. Share your meat, cloth with your neighbour).


2. They aren't even on the right path of Jesus.
If you're still living in sin, you're on the opposite direction to the Lord. Jesus is the light. Sin is darkness. Light and darkness can never be at same place at same time. That is exactly the same way Jesus and sin can never be at same place at same time. Once you commit sin, Jesus withdraws Himself immediately.Jesus is the Holy One of Israel. Jesus said I am the way, the truth and life. (Jhn 14:6)
Jesus is the only way to fulfil your destiny. Any other way leads no destruction. Any other way leads no where.
Listen, Jesus is the good Shepard, and it is only the Shepard that can lead the sheep to pasture, to shelter to comfort to protection. If any sheep wanders off the Shepard, what do you call such sheep? The lost sheep. That's exactly what happens when we wander off God's ways.

3. They have no star to direct them to the Lord Jesus. So they are completely lost in the world.  They haven't gotten their bearing yet.
The ones that have heard of Jesus and don't know how to locate Him.
Now is the time to give your life to Christ.
Say this prayer quietly; Lord Jesus, come into my life, be my Lord and and personal saviour. I believe you died for me on the cross and on the third day you rose again for my justification. Use your Blood of Jesus to cleanse me from all iniquities, tragedies, curse, repercussions in Jesus Name. And let my life produce good fruits for You. in JESUS NAME. AMEN.

Why couples Divorce.- Episode 1

1.  Sex before marriage 

This here is the main reason why we have such a high divorce rate.
That's why I always and strongly advice young ones, don't sleep with that boyfriend and girlfriend of yours. Even if he/her is your fiance, DON'T. The reason is this, when you start having sex with someone, it is almost impossible for you not to have feelings for the person.
So why most marriages breakup is that, the couple when dating started having sex. As long as you have had sex with your prospective husband/wife, it beclouds your reasoning. You won't be able to see when things go wrong. You develop a deep feeling for the person, then you call that feeling love. No, it's not love my dear. It's the sex that has created it's own attraction for that opposite sex.

So now, because sex is such a powerful, enjoyable fun. You want to continue having it with the opposite sex. And then, you always want to see him/her. Then you translate the whole feeling to love...
But after marriage, when you've had sex in excess, and tired of it. That's when they start to look for other good qualities in their partner. That's when the ladies start to see his bad side, and when the men starts telling you she nags alot.

But while they were dating, if you had eliminated the sex, trust me they would have been able to see each other for who they really are. And then they would be able to make good decision if both are actually compatible, life partners.

This reason to me is the Main reason why most marriages break-up these days.
The Bible is the wisest Book, that's why it says Don't fornicate. It must have seen the bad side of it before marriage. 

Will let you know the other reasons why most marriages break-up in the world.
More truths coming your way soonest....