Thursday 28 January 2016

Divorce is NOT the Answer


Peace be unto you all, My millions of readers, I bring this topic to you as it is very important to each and every one of us.

Whether you are single, married, divorced, or a child .....I want you to know the truth.


Divorce is a complete separation between two people. Marriage on the other hand is the joining together of two people, Man and woman. So divorce is the opposite of marriage. No wonder God hates divorce, because it is doing the exact opposite of what God's intention for us.

In Matt 19:4 and also Gen 2:22, GOD defines marriage as said; For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall b one flesh?
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What God hath joined together, let not man put asunder. 

Here the Bible makes it explicitly clearer. God is the inventor of marriage. He knows that it is not good for a man to be alone. That's why when people want to divorce, God is never in support. And its very dangerous to do something that God does not support.

Marriage is God's choice for us all. That's why even though you're divorce, and you marry another person, according to GOD and the Bible, you have committed adultery.
And once a single person marries a divorced person, the single person has committed adultery.
Which means that, according to the record of GOD, once you're married, you're married for life. Even if on earth you divorce, in Heaven you're still married.

There is no perfect marriage.
A wise man said Marriage is the coming together of two imperfect people deciding to make it work.
Brethren , I speak to you now, if you're married, try your best and make it work. Divorce is not the answer.

If you're single, Look before you leap. Ask God if the man you're about to marry is actually the bone of your bone and flesh of your flesh. Same goes if you're a man and about to marry.

My earlier posts says the main reason why people divorce. (Sex before marriage)

Marriage is like a boat. carrying the husband and the wife on a deep sea. Getting out of the boat is not an option. So if there is a misunderstanding, the two must make it work. The only option they have is to remain in the marriage.
Just like when JESUS and His disciples were on a boat in the sea and the winds began to blow, What did Jesus do? He confronted the problem, Oh wind be still. and it obeyed. 
Exactly same can be done in marriage. If you face any challenges, confront the challenge. Because you know God was the one that created marriage, you're sure He will be quick to answer any prayer that relates to your marriage. Hold Him responsible if He hasn't answered you yet, until he answers. 

And like I said, you must make it work, and by the Grace of God, I wish you true Joy and everlasting

happiness in your marriage in JESUS NAME...More Truths coming your way soon............

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